Unpopular Opinion: We Never Lose the Child Inside
That's not a compliment. It's actually an insult to children, since I'm sure many have greater capacity for empathy than many adults ever will. In school, we learn how to analyze math problems, science experiments, or motivations in literature, but strangely never everyday human behavior. Only the most inspired teachers will set aside time to discuss human behavior, and with mandated testing, that time is smaller than ever. Otherwise, attempts to understand human thought are relegated to specialized fields: psychology, anthropology, criminology. We save our deepest fears for private therapy sessions rather than discuss and analyze them in a public group. Of course it makes sense to want privacy in some situations, but by separating feelings from our everyday lives, by telling ourselves that certain feelings shouldn't "be there," by pretending that they don't exist, we risk painting ourselves and others as one dimensional. So we wa...