Unpopular Opinion: It's Okay to Whine. No, Really!
In American culture, whining is probably second only to murdering in terms of being a scorned activity. Those who whine are labeled childish, selfish, soft, weak, lazy, lacking character, and "everything that's wrong with today." Americans don't want whiners -- we want winners! Yet the definition of "whine" can be difficult to pin down. Merriam-Webster Dictionary merely describes the sound -- "to utter a high-pitched plaintive or distressed cry" or "to complain with or as if with a whine." As does the Free Dictionary: "To utter a plaintive, high-pitched, protracted sound, as in pain, fear, supplication, or complaint." So the sound isn't pleasant, but does that mean the reason for it should be ignored? What is the fine line between a valid complaint and a "whine"? Maybe the answer lies in our view of the American ideal: the stoic, rugged individual who takes a single tree on a barren landscape and turn